“As I finish my tenure as Surgeon General, this is my parting prescription, my final wish for all of us: Choose community.

- Dr. Vivek Murthy (former U.S. Surgeon General)

In a country diagnosed with a loneliness epidemic, an overwhelm of isolating and all-consuming tech, and a culture of deep polarization, ‘choosing community,’ can often feel nearly impossible.

At The Gathering School we get it. Community is hard; relationships are messy; being human is just too much sometimes. But even when all of that is true, we believe there’s a way out. We believe we already have the tools we need to return to one another, and to ourselves. We simply need to get them in our hands.

Who we are…

The Gathering School is a community for people who believe the division, distraction, and disconnection we are experiencing in modern life are not the be-all-end-all. We know that gatherings of all shapes and sizes, be they around a conference table, dinner table, or dance floor, are the places we learn who we are and how to relate to one another. It’s a place to be messy, to change your mind, and to practice courage in the face of uncertainty - together.

What we value…

  • We believe that truth has a large vocabulary and as we meet new people and experience new things, our understanding of what it means to be human and to connect, grows and expands. We embrace an open-minded attitude towards life and people because we believe curiosity is the key to unlocking true community.

  • At The Gathering School we are committed to providing resources, tools, and strategies for connection that help you feel more present and grounded in your everyday life. We believe that change starts in our own backyard, with our feet in the dirt and a glass of wine in our hands. Our materials seek to be as immediately practical as possible, and to help you live a more embodied life.

  • While we are a for-profit business, we believe that every single human being has the right to resources that help them feel more deeply connected. As such, we strive to keep our material as easy to understand and immediately applicable as possible. We also strive to keep the barriers to entry low - meaning, we strive to keep our materials affordable, offer scholarships and payment plans, and give resources away for free when possible.

  • In our modern world there are a myriad of things to keep us feeling depressed, divided, and despairing. At The Gathering School we strive to provide beautiful alternatives for connection - we want to show you what IS possible in your relational life and why hope is worth it.

  • Life and relationships are messy. As such, we believe that unlocking a more hopeful, more connected future involves learning how to hold the nuanced, complicated nature of being human. We strive to teach you how to do this in your own nervous system, in your immediate communities, and in the context of our greater human experiences.